Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
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Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
Last edited by Boban on Wed Dec 23, 2009 6:48 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Re: Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
Ispravka ime mu se ne pise tako,pise se Layne Staley molim te Sanela ako mozes ispraviti u nalovu topica ili reci meni kako to da uradim ako ja trebam 
Odlican sajt za narkomane koji zele oporavak http://www.laynestaleyfund.com/mission.php
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Re: Layne Stanley tribute with AA,AN
Evo dela jednog prekrasnog maila Layneove mame, koji mi puno znači.
"Don’t lose heart. This is not Armageddan.
What difference can one sober life make? How will you know, except by doing what is right and kind?
Life is hard and sad, sometimes, for everyone. It is not our karma. Layne did not deserve to die this hideous death. We are not being punished for our mistakes or inadequacies. Humans are fallible, vulnerable, and fragile, in body and mind. We all will be tested.
Mother Nature, sometimes arbitrary and capricious, is putting us through the evolutionary gauntlet; as it has all of the generations of your family before you. You are a product of millions of years of mental and physical prowess. At the very least, Mother Nature has deemed it necessary for you to arrive, survive, and--I hope--to thrive.
Layne sang, “We’re all alone”. But, I’m Layne’s mom, and I say,” We’re all alone, together.”
There are seven billion of us, and I believe the lesson for survival is to learn to work together. It’s the buddy system. And if we don’t get it, and settle down, and relax, and help each other, we’re going to continue bumping into one another, hurrying around getting ours before the next guy. It’s pretty creepy.
You’re in a big club, the biggest sporting event on earth; the human race. And we’re all going to finish, one way or the other. Run well.
You have to feel to heal. In my humble opinion, trying drugs is a choice; using is using; getting hooked is being ambushed and is no longer a choice. No one knows whose body will succumb, ’til it’s too late. Addiction is not a choice. It’s not a choice. It’s a trap!
Layne, aged four, once asked me, “Mom, what’s it like when you die?” In my infinite wisdom (I was 23) I said, “Well, Layne, I think it might be like when you’re born. You get too big for the old space and you get pushed out into a new space, into the arms of those who love you the most and are waiting for you.” I hope I was close.
Today, and every day, I reach out to my dear son, Layne, and say “Thank you, Layne, for your courage and integrity in the face of the animal. You are my teacher, now.”
I miss him more and more, because the separation is longer and longer. At night, I say, “Love you forever, Layne”.
Abstinence is only the beginning of recovery. Maturity is the process that takes place in 12-step groups. There’s lots of relearning that needs to take place; this time from our higher-power (instincts and intuitions for good/conscience) instead of in response to fear. Abstinence without a program of recovery only allows the anger to mount and explode periodically. (Binge drinking/drugging.) The alcoholic/addict and the family remain sick; locked in the same destructive behaviors.
I hope the New Year is going well for you, so far.
Love to you and yours,
Nancy"
"Don’t lose heart. This is not Armageddan.
What difference can one sober life make? How will you know, except by doing what is right and kind?
Life is hard and sad, sometimes, for everyone. It is not our karma. Layne did not deserve to die this hideous death. We are not being punished for our mistakes or inadequacies. Humans are fallible, vulnerable, and fragile, in body and mind. We all will be tested.
Mother Nature, sometimes arbitrary and capricious, is putting us through the evolutionary gauntlet; as it has all of the generations of your family before you. You are a product of millions of years of mental and physical prowess. At the very least, Mother Nature has deemed it necessary for you to arrive, survive, and--I hope--to thrive.
Layne sang, “We’re all alone”. But, I’m Layne’s mom, and I say,” We’re all alone, together.”
There are seven billion of us, and I believe the lesson for survival is to learn to work together. It’s the buddy system. And if we don’t get it, and settle down, and relax, and help each other, we’re going to continue bumping into one another, hurrying around getting ours before the next guy. It’s pretty creepy.
You’re in a big club, the biggest sporting event on earth; the human race. And we’re all going to finish, one way or the other. Run well.
You have to feel to heal. In my humble opinion, trying drugs is a choice; using is using; getting hooked is being ambushed and is no longer a choice. No one knows whose body will succumb, ’til it’s too late. Addiction is not a choice. It’s not a choice. It’s a trap!
Layne, aged four, once asked me, “Mom, what’s it like when you die?” In my infinite wisdom (I was 23) I said, “Well, Layne, I think it might be like when you’re born. You get too big for the old space and you get pushed out into a new space, into the arms of those who love you the most and are waiting for you.” I hope I was close.
Today, and every day, I reach out to my dear son, Layne, and say “Thank you, Layne, for your courage and integrity in the face of the animal. You are my teacher, now.”
I miss him more and more, because the separation is longer and longer. At night, I say, “Love you forever, Layne”.
Abstinence is only the beginning of recovery. Maturity is the process that takes place in 12-step groups. There’s lots of relearning that needs to take place; this time from our higher-power (instincts and intuitions for good/conscience) instead of in response to fear. Abstinence without a program of recovery only allows the anger to mount and explode periodically. (Binge drinking/drugging.) The alcoholic/addict and the family remain sick; locked in the same destructive behaviors.
I hope the New Year is going well for you, so far.
Love to you and yours,
Nancy"
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Re: Lyne Stanley tribute with AA,AN
Mene su zmarci prosli kad je otpevala 'WAKE UP" na ovom tributu 2009 
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Re: Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
Idi na prvi post u ovoj temi i uradi : UREDI.BOBAN wrote:Ispravka ime mu se ne pise tako,pise se Layne Staley molim te Sanela ako mozes ispraviti u nalovu topica ili reci meni kako to da uradim ako ja trebam
Tamo u vrhu imaš da izmeniš naslov topica.
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Re: Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
tnx,psihoticna
Re: Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
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Re: Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
Hvala Bobane,meni je ovo vrlo ikorisna informacija.
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Re: Layne Staley tribute with AA,AN
ee super ti ove stvari...posudicu ti malo za fejs 
Grad razoren bez zidina, takav je čovjek koji nema vlasti nad sobom.
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